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DANDENONG Maternity Photographer

Everyone (including me) feels nervous about jumping in front of the camera; and I’m here to remind you that your bump is beautiful. You are beautiful. No matter how pregnancy has affected your body, you are making LIFE inside of you, and that is pretty freaking amazing. 

It’s my job to make you forget about all those lumps and bumps and things that make you feel self-conscious, and instead to get you focused on all the love and excitement you and your partner are feeling. 

Your bump is not the main focus; we won’t spend your whole session taking photos of you posing with your hand on your belly (because, boring). Instead, I want to capture things like the way your partner tenderly touches your tummy. The way he holds you extra gently, your glow, your joy, your excitement, and what life looks like right now.

Hopefully you can see that in these photos ♥

Here's a few of my favourite images from my maternity/family session with Emily, Frankie and Billy (and of course, the bump), at the Emerald Lake in Dandenong (one of the stops the Puffing Billy makes!). The sun came out just in time for our session, and I was in photographer-heaven the entire session because THE LIGHT. THE LIGHT!!! The kind of light dreams are made of (now I'm just being dramatic, but I mean come on - THE LIGHT).

 
 

When making a decision about whether to have a maternity session or not, don’t base your decision on the photos your friends or family have taken of you on an iPhone! The photos a professional can take of you will be ten times better, because you’ll be working with someone who understands that certain angles are more flattering than others, that lighting is key. Most
importantly, they’ll be able to guide you to feel amazing on the inside and outside.

If you are interested in finding out more information, check out my portfolio here (as well as the blog posts below) or if you are a superstar and want to chat, hit the button below to send me an email.

 
5 of my favourite wedding readings

Our wedding was the freaking BEST day of my life, and if I could do it all over again I don't think I would change a single thing.

That probably is due to ALL the MONTHS (and years) of research I did leading up to it, because it was one of the most stressful parts of the wedding planning process for me!

To me, this is the MOST important part of your wedding day - it's so easy to get caught up in all the pretty photos, and the planning, and the seating arrangements, and remembering to get bonbonierre; and forget that this day is all about your marriage  - the bit that comes after the wedding day.  

I'm not a very traditional person, and I wanted our ceremony to be fun, and very deep and meaningful (no traditional vows for us, we wrote our own!) and a celebration of our love.

I clocked a lot of hours on Pinterest trying to find the perfect readings, and I wanted to share a couple of my favourites with you in case you need some inspiration.


BLESSING OF THE HANDS (BY REV. DANIEL L HARRIS)

My in-laws have been such a role model for me on what a truly happy, respectful and loving marriage looks like, and as soon as I found this I knew I wanted her to read this for us at our wedding ceremony (she did, and it was beautiful).

 

These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow, and forever.

These are the hands that will work alongside yours, as together you build your future.

These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, and with the slightest touch, will comfort you like no other.

These are the hands that will hold you when fear or grief fills your mind.

These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes; tears of sorrow, and tears of joy.

These are the hands that will tenderly hold your children.

These are the hands that will help you to hold your family as one.

These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.

And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.


UNION - BY ROBERT FULGHAM

This is the other reading that we used in our ceremony and it still means so much to me ♥

 

You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes, to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making commitments in an informal way. All of those conversations that were held in a car, or over a meal, or during long walks – all those conversations that began with, “When we’re married”, and continued with “I will” and “you will” and “we will” – all those late night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe” – and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding.

The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things that we’ve promised, and hoped, and dreamed – well, I meant it all, every word.”

Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another – acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, even teacher, for you have learned much from one another these past few years. Shortly you shall say a few words that will take you across a threshold of life, and things between you will never quite be the same.

For after today you shall say to the world – This is my husband. This is my wife.


THE ART OF MARRIAGE - by Wilferd Arlan Peterson

 

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created. In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say “I love you” at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted; the courtship should not end with the honeymoon, it should continue through the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world. It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy.
It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner; it is being the right partner.

A LOVELY LOVE STORY - EDWARD MONKTON

 

The fierce Dinosaur was trapped inside his cage of ice. Although it was cold he was happy in there. It was, after all, his cage.

Then along came the Lovely Other Dinosaur.
The Lovely Other Dinosaur melted the Dinosaur’s cage with kind words and loving thoughts.

“I like this Dinosaur,” thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur.  “Although he is fierce he is also tender and he is funny.  He is also quite clever though I will not tell him this for now.”

“I like this Lovely Other Dinosaur,” thought the Dinosaur. “She is beautiful and she is different and she smells so nice.  She is also a free spirit which is a quality I much admire in a dinosaur.”

“But he can be so distant and so peculiar at times,” thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur.  “He is also overly fond of things.  Are all Dinosaurs so overly fond of things?”

“But her mind skips from here to there so quickly,” thought the Dinosaur.  “She is also uncommonly keen on shopping.  Are all Lovely Other Dinosaurs so uncommonly keen on shopping?”

“I will forgive his peculiarity and his concern for things,” thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur, “for they are part of what makes him a richly charactered individual.”

“I will forgive her skipping mind and her fondness for shopping,” thought the Dinosaur, “for she fills our life with beautiful thoughts and wonderful surprises. Besides, I am not unkeen on shopping either.”

Now the Dinosaur and the Lovely Other Dinosaur are old.  Look at them.  Together they stand on the hill telling each other stories and feeling the warmth of the sun on their backs.

And that, my friends, is how it is with love.
Let us all be Dinosaurs and Lovely Other Dinosaurs together.  For the sun is warm.  And the world is a beautiful place.

That Still And Settled Place by Edward Monkton

In that still and settled place
There’s nobody but you
You’re where I breath my oxygen
You’re where I see my view
And when the world feels full of noise
My heart knows what to do
It finds that still and settled place
And dances there with you

No doubt your celebrant will have many more readings to share with you, but if you would like some more inspiration on vows and wedding readings, you can check out my Pinterest board over here!

Do you have a favourite wedding vow? I would love to hear it, leave me a comment below and tell me what it was!

Lexi x